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Everyone else's opinions about my divorce

You thought getting divorced was tough on you?  Now here comes everyone else's emotions.  All for you to handle.  Yay!

Maybe it's the previous generation and their lack of understanding of emotional boundaries, but since my divorce, I've been bombarded with emotions, complaints, and most of the time (sadly), blame. Didn't I know how shameful it is to have a divorced daughter? Of course not!  But please do let me know how hard it is for you to be in a solid marriage that I admire and watch your daughter fail.  It doesn't hurt me at all.  I don't sit in the dark alone, crying at night because I'm so happy that I've not only failed my kids, I've also failed my parents.

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